Sunday, January 24, 2010

"Pieces" of the Puzzle

Hi to All,

To view Jessica on Fox TV, Click on Link Below:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PW_vstm0bS8


I will have an update on Jessica tomorrow.


Today is a happy and a sad day. It's happy in that today, our fellow RSD patient in Room 844 is finally going home. Justin Brown and his Dad left the Hospital San Jose Tec this morning to return home to Pennsylvania. Justin will be returning to the states to continue his road to recovery! Godspeed Justin & Rick!

Justin's Mom Joan and Dad Rick were the first persons I met when we arrived here in Mexico. I will never forget how happy I was to know that there were fellow "americans" here as well. Because they had already been here for a few months, they knew all the "ropes" and were so helpful to me in those beginning days on the 8th floor. They were the ones I went to for guidance and strength, especially during those days in the coma and in ICU.

Justin became known as the "Ice Pop Boy". This was the name that Jessica had given him because he was always asking for some of our ice-pops that we had brought from home. These are the ice-pops that come in a long plastic tube filled with liquid that you put in the freezer and they come in different flavors and colors. They became a favorite for all the coma patients on the floor as well - especially when word got out that we had them! We were glad to share them with all!

Yesterday, I presented Justin with the handmade "Ketamine Coma Bear" that I made as a farewell present to him. It is something that he can look upon to remember where he has been and to realize how far he has come - Enjoy the bear Justin!

I would like to take this opportunity to thank Rick Brown for ALL that he did for me to make my life and Jessica's life easier while here in Mexico. Words cannot adequately say "Thank-You" for all the help he gave to us. From going to the store, to bringing my laundry to the laundromat, to buying the coffee - and to most importantly - always being there to talk to as well! After the Emmanuels - Devon & Cathy - left, Rick became my special "messenger" in more ways than one - so THANK YOU - again Rick - for everything!

Also, let me say this to all who are battling diseases like RSD, Lyme, Cancer, Crohn's, etc. When you are faced with illnesses - it affects the patient in a very profound way physically. As their caregivers - it affects us in a very profound way emotionally. We are here with them 24/7 - trying to tend to their physical needs as well as their emotional needs. We are the ones that stand beside them and offer unconditional "love", "support", and "encouraging" words, when we ourselves are the ones who need these "encouraging" words at times as well!

I guess what I am trying to say is this: I have come to realize that when you are confronted with a major illness in your life or the life of your loved one - "We" - the caregivers, the family, the friends, the doctors, the nurses, EVERYONE, become a part of the "puzzle". Yes, we all are a "piece" of the puzzle! And it takes all of these "pieces" - all together - to finally complete the puzzle - and make it whole again! Everyone plays a "part", we all are a "piece" to the puzzle! The ultimate goal is to find that last "piece" of the puzzle --- the"healing" piece! It is then and only then that the puzzle is complete and all of the "pieces" that helped form that puzzle come together as one!

So, Godspeed to Justin, to his Dad Rick, and to his Mom Joan and brother Chris - who are waiting for him with open arms - to welcome him home! Let's hope that his final "piece" of the puzzle - his "healing" will be revealed really soon!!!

Here is a Poem for Justin, Jessica, Devon, Fern, Elena, Debbie, Lindsay, Kaci, Irene, Linda, Emily, Patricia, Shannon, Sue, Mary, Suzanne and everyone else who is battling this disease:

If you don't know where you are going,
then how will you get there?
VISUALIZE!
Make pictures in your mind.
See the destination.
Imagine your arrival.
Dream in perfect detail.
See yourself the way you want to be when you arrive.
See yourself arriving.
Make yourself a road map and study it every day
until you know the way and the destination by heart.


In God's love, always,
Sarah Gina (Jessica's Mom)*

***To post a Comment, CLICK on Comments Below***

17 comments:

  1. Thanks for the poem. Too true!

    I imagine you are very happy for Justin but very sad for yourself. Part of the family is leaving and you are there to hold down the fort for us. I know thre is another family arriving soon and they will need your guidance as well. It is great that we can all be a support to another at different times in our lives and I was glad to read how much Rick meant to you. Just knowing that you had some friendship and support from their family while you have been down there, is a real blessing frm the Lord. He puts people in our path to be there for a short or even a long time and it is often we can all be used if we allow it. May you feel surrounded in love, cherished and supported today and everyday.

    Hopefully, I will get a room close to you and will see you in a little over a week's time. I must admit it makes me feel better to know that you will be there when I get there. Familiar faces make all the difference and it is always good to see friends no matter the circumstances.

    Look forward to hearing how things are going and sending loving and healing thoughts to you Jessica. May you feel God's embrace ever more acutely today and may you feel strength in that!

    ReplyDelete
  2. God bless you all! Your thoughts on being puzzle pieces are spot on. Today the second reading at Mass was about being the body of Christ, and how we are all parts of that body that need each other. We all have our part to play for each other and for God. Take care. xo

    ReplyDelete
  3. How wonderful that Justin is heading home!

    Even during very difficult times, special bonds are being made.

    I guess you will now be the ones to show the "ropes" to new families. :)

    By the way, I liked your poem.

    We pray that all RSD patients will "arrive" at their destination.

    May God continue to give you great strength as you care for your sweet Jessica. May He heal Jessica very soon.

    With love & prayers,
    The Turners

    ReplyDelete
  4. I little something to encourage you...

    Here is a video of Kids singing our "God is an Awesome God". It picks up a little later (tempo and harmony). It is sweet!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPa-RzKQ7hc

    ReplyDelete
  5. Dear Jessica and Mrs. Stevens,

    Thank you for the beautiful poem. Helen Keller said, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched...but are felt in the heart." and Dorothy Bernard said, "Courage is fear that has said its prayers."
    I think of these quotes, and I think of both you, Mrs.Stevens, and Jessica. You are brave, determined, and so admirable. Your tiresome faith and unshakable devotion inspire me, and I stand in awe of both of you.
    Prior to becoming so ill four years ago, I was a teacher, and I LOVED my students and my career; we take so many things for granted when we have our health. Look at how you have put your entire family on hold, and better yet, look at how everyone has rallied together! How wonderful it is each time I read a blog about the love among your family members and the unselfish devotion to one another. Unless people have had an experience like yours, they have no idea what you are living right now. You are in my prayers daily.
    I think of my "new" favorite quote, "We make plans, God laughs." It is so true! Jessica, remember that persistence can conquer all things, and with your faith in The Lord, how can you fail?
    Mrs. Stevens, as I said yesterday, you are what all Moms should be; with your devout faith in The Lord and dedication to your daughter's recovery, anyone who reads this blog can see that impossible is not in your vocabulary.

    "The sky's the limit when your heart is in it."
    God Bless,
    Debbie Caloutas

    ReplyDelete
  6. at Henry Viscardi School for the Physically Challenged, Long Island, NY, the phrase is "Failure is not an option".These students struggle each day and, like you, they have the courage and the strength from God to continue on the road that God has led you.
    At Mass today, as each week I had thoughts of you both and our many parts and yet we are all ONE.
    our prayers are with the Stevens Family.
    Still awaiting our new grandson. Barbara is exhausted. Jessica, do you remember how Barbara took care of you? Thanks for trainging her to be a good mom.
    Linda in saratoga

    ReplyDelete
  7. Make yourself a road map and study it every day until you know the way and the destination by heart.

    John 14:4-6

    4You know the way to the place where I am going."

    5Thomas said to him, "Lord, we don't know where you are going, so how can we know the way?"

    6Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.


    Matthew 6:21
    21For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

    ReplyDelete
  8. Hi Jessica and Mrs, Stevens,

    Thanks for the poem. Really, it is so true. I can't tell you how many times my Mom and I sat in our room in Mexico and kept saying, "This is our ultimate goal, we will get there." Sometimes so much I wanted to give my Mom a well placed punch in the arm. :) After all, when confined in a room after so long, you know sometimes the going over and over and over the same thing does get a bit old. ;) But having said that, Mom was the reason and one that ultimately kept me going. I couldn't have made it through those difficult times with out her. When I got tired of fighting, she was there to help pick me up, get me re-focus, and back on track. As you said mrs. Stevens, there are so many that have become "pieces" of my puzzle and I am convinced Mom has several.

    Keeping you in my prayers always! I have been meaning to sit down and write to Jessica and let her know what is going on around here, but after spending almost 7 hours this weekend on math homework, my time seemed to get away from me. :) Expect an email soon!

    Love you guys.

    In HIs love,


    Lindsay

    ReplyDelete
  9. Sarah Gina & Jessica,
    Thank you for the encouraging poem. All of us wouldn't be where we are at today without the strong willed mothers and fathers we have fighting this battle beside us. You are a true testament to that. I know Jessica will look back ten years from now and give you a big hug and say thank you. Hang in there and remember, this process is one day at a time. Lots of prayers and love from FL.

    Suzanne Hyatt & Family

    ReplyDelete
  10. As someone who is afflicted with a chronic disease (crohn's) I can say that without it I would not be whom I am today. Well you might say a duh- But what I mean is that with sickness you will either run to God or run from Him. I chose to run to Him. And ,as a result, He has used me mightily in spreading his word.

    Without this illness, I doubt that would have happened. Sickness takes away your control of life. And when we lose control then God has an opportunity to take control if we let him. And if we let Him take control then he will fashion us to be who he wants us to be in Christ.

    Yes it does put a toll on those we love and our care givers, but in the end I think it is worth it.

    David

    ReplyDelete
  11. Jessica,

    as a daughter of my dad who is sick and a sister of my jessica who is sick..i think i know more than anybody what it is like!! but i am gonna get to my point. my point is jessica. Jessica, God never promised you or me or anyone a peachy cream life. He never promised us a happy or healthy life either. But God did promise that he would get us through the tough times. And God is doing that right now. God is getting us through the though times. i love you Jessica. And i love you mommy!!!

    Love,
    Michelle

    ReplyDelete
  12. Jessica, I had the opportunity to transport Justin and Mr. Rick to Mexico. They mentioned they knew you. I so desparately wanted to go see you at the hospital but was not allowed......we were sent on another flight :( They are such nice people! I pray that you are getting better every day! Crystal

    ReplyDelete
  13. James 5:17

    17Elijah was a man just like us. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years.

    ReplyDelete
  14. James 5:11-12

    11As you know, we consider blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job's perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about.

    The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.

    ReplyDelete
  15. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MS93Q4jQAO0

    Amazing Grace by 2-year Old :)

    This is cute!

    ReplyDelete